Photo Friday: My Baby

Mother and Child in the Garden

This week’s Photo Friday challenge is “My Baby”.

This is not me, nor my baby, but I do like the Madonna and Child feel to this picture, taken at the Brooklyn Botanical Gardens in May, 2010.

I would post a picture of my baby, who turns 23 this week, but he would not be happy if I did so. What I can tell you is that the picture I would post was taken at Winkler Point, Fort Myers Beach in Jan, 2010 on the only warm day that month. He is looking at me, with a natural smile — something not often captured on film — and doesn’t look like he was putting up with his mother, either for the nature walk or the photo. He was graciously putting up with both of them. In this photo, one would easily recognize that he is a ruggedly handsome man. (He does not look like me one bit!).

I am proud at the wonderful young man my son has grown to be. He is intelligent, kind and caring, with a healthy dose of humor and sarcasm that allows me and other to look at the world in differing ways.

My “baby” will graduate from the Home of the Boilermakers in the Spring and will be commissioned as a 2nd lieutenant in the US Air Force immediately following commencement. He will then head to flight training, pursuing the dream he has had since he was 7 years old. He has been on this track since he was 17, and, although it took me a few years to reconcile my feelings about the current war and his desire to have a military career, I made peace long ago that it is his path to follow, not mine. Kudos to him for knowing what he wants, having the courage to pursue it, and understanding all of its implications.

I am so proud of him for following his dream. I am proud of him for the man that he is.

I love you B. Happy birthday!

4 responses to “Photo Friday: My Baby

  1. Kudos to Mom too for letting her son to be whatever he chooses to be! Congrats to your son for his efforts and success in reaching his goal. Yes, I can empathize how proud you must be. I’m also a mother with a son whose striving to build a career on his own. He’s just started professional school now after graduating from college. Will take another three years more for school. I’m patiently waiting.

  2. Well, the best of luck to him! Mine are still at the beginning of that long, weird path known as ‘having a career’. Dudelet wants to be a scientist. Or a comedian. He’s too young to remember Magnus Pike so doesn’t realise he could do both…

    • Thanks, Gabriel. Amazing how our children grow, isn’t it? My mother was making a comment earlier today about one aspect of my son, and commenting that in that regard he was very much like me. I’m not sure that either of us would agree (right now B likes to tease that some of his less desirable qualities — procrastinating tendencies and letting the perfect get in the way of the good in a bad way — come from me). But there is so much about him that I noticed when he was just a toddler. I’m sure you’ll look back when your children are grown and think the same.