The One in Which I Use Bad Photographs For A Photo Challenge


This week’s Weekly Photo Challenge is:  Thankful.

Initially, the theme — to be blunt — irked me.   How lame! I thought when I saw it.  How predictable!  Haven’t we had enough of public displays of “gratitude” and “thankfulness” for a while?    And then I immediately felt guilty for being such an ingrate.  But, how, I thought would I show gratitude in the types of photos that I shoot?  But, I didn’t ponder that dilemma as much as I pondered why I felt so jaded by displays of gratitude via social media.

It isn’t that I’m not thankful for things.  I am:  my family, my friends, my home, my food, my health, my general comfort level, my intelligence, my …..    Perhaps that was it:  everything was “mine“.   Since the beginning of the month several of my friends have been posting daily “I’m thankful for …” status on Facebook.  I started to participate in this exercise but had abandoned it by day four.   I have tried to keep a gratitude journal before, with similar effect.   It always seems that after a few days I realize how self-centered, rather than introspective, my thoughts of gratitude are.  It makes all of the things that I am thankful for seem irrelevant.

If I think of these things in terms of “first-world problems” it makes it seem all the more trivial, and perhaps even down right selfish.   My problems aren’t problems to someone who doesn’t know where their next meal is coming from;  who doesn’t know when they will see their children again because the only work is days away from home — or if those children are safe from war, unrest, famine, disease; who can’t imagine how their children’s lives can ever be different if they can’t read or write.  Or closer to home:  what will happen when the bank account is depleted, when the food stamps and public assistance run out, when the gas is turned off, because there hasn’t been work for several weeks, or there isn’t an affordable and safe place to live, or there isn’t enough money to pay for both healthy meals and medicine.

It is why I always feel queasy when I hear someone say “There but for the grace of God, go I”.  That statement makes it seem as if God took favor upon a person — spared them cancer, or hunger, or financial ruin.  What is the inverse of that?  That the troubled person has not had the Grace of God?    I don’t think it works that way.   If it did, I wouldn’t want to be a part of it.  Similarly, this is why platitudes of thanksgiving ring hollow for me:  much of which I have to be thankful for is due to lucky circumstances of time, class, society.  I wouldn’t want to do without them, but it isn’t what makes me thankful.  I don’t want my thankfulness to be focused on things, on the details of my life.

I was thinking these thoughts today when I wandered by the window and happened to notice a large swatch of red moving quickly out of view.  I went to grab my camera and long lens.   The cardinal was still nearby, though he never stood still quite long enough for me to compose and shoot.   After a few attempts, I looked beyond the patio where the cardinal was to the woods that stretch behind our home and towards our neighbors.  There were more swatches of red — robins, cardinals and woodpeckers.   An afternoon convocation!   At one point, I spotted 1 pileated woodpecker, 2 red-headed woodpeckers and 2 northern flickers all happily flitting from tree to tree looking for bugs.

Again, I could be thankful that I have a warm, safe home with a beautiful view of birds and trees and non-threatening wildlife.  (It isn’t like bears or tigers are likely to maul me here.)  But, can I be thankful for the birds?  And why exactly, would I be?

It was then that I realized that I am thankful for a sense of wonder that I feel when I am taken away from the “stuff” of my life and observe the life that goes on around me. I can laugh that it seems as if there is  a regular 2 o’clock coffee clatch of birds near the feeders, or that I can enjoy watching the squirrels chase each other down the drive and back into the trees.   But they don’t do those things for me.   Those aren’t things that I have.  They would happen whether I observed them or not.  They happen whether I am here or not.   And the animals don’t give a rat’s ass about me; as long as I don’t intrude upon their habitat or try to capture them for food, they are oblivious to my actions, my concerns, my life.

It is this realization that I am grateful for.  To realize that life goes on without me.  It goes on without each of us as individuals.  It isn’t here for our enjoyment, but it is something that we can enjoy.  The world may not be about us, but it doesn’t mean that we don’t have to be about the world.

It isn’t things that we should be thankful for; we should just be thankful for life — the lives of our families and friends, the lives of those we interact with regularly, the lives of those we intersect with briefly, and the lives of those whose spheres do not touch ours directly, but that share this planet as well.   We should be thankful that we can laugh, and cry and share those emotions with others. We should be thankful for our intellect and for our senses of humor; thought and laughter are vital to life and wholeness.

I am thankful that I got up today.  I am thankful that those I love got up today.   I am thankful that those I don’t know got up today and we all keep going on this weird, wonderful planet in our weird, wonderful lives.

I will be thankful tomorrow for the same.  I’m glad that the squirrels and birds helped me to realize this — even if they don’t have a clue that they did.

Squirrel Blur

A Touch of Bright Red in the Barren Trees

Other entries into this week’s Photo Challenge can be found here.  Likely they did not take the same rambling approach as I did. :-)

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About Anne Camille

I bought my first SLR camera (a Yashica TL-ELECTRO) when I was 17 and imagined I would become a great photographer. My love of photography, unfortunately, was thwarted by a photo-journalism class (the first "C" in college, but not the last!) as well as several packages of accidentally exposed photo paper and the high cost of film on a student budget. An unexpected gift of a Canon Rebel xSI four years ago reawakened those old, dormant dreams. A bit wiser now, I knew that photog instructor was full of bs even if technically he was pretty good. I began snapping away and haven't looked back. Mostly, I shoot nature photography because flowers and rocks don't talk back at you when you pose them. I am a photographer, a reader, a writer, a thinker, a dreamer. Mostly you'll see the photographer here, but signs of the others shine through every now and again.
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11 Responses to The One in Which I Use Bad Photographs For A Photo Challenge

  1. Pingback: Weekly Photo Challenge: Thankful | Humbled Pie

  2. Hi Anne, great post!

  3. smithereens says:

    Great post! In France we don’t have an official day for being grateful and so it seems that we tend to be grouchy and unnecessarily sarcastic and critical. I always admire Americans for being positive, but then I am also uncomfortable when this positiveness turns into a sort of narcissistic first-world sense of pride flaunted to the rest of the world. I think your post has some Buddhist inspiration. You know what? I’m grateful that the internet made it possible for me to meet you online and IRL too!

    • Anne Camille says:

      Too often Americans are grouchy, sarcastic & critical too! I agree with you on the narcissistic attitudes – I don’t understand it at all and I think it is detrimental to understanding other people. I, too, am grateful that we’ve met online & IRL. Maybe in the next year I’ll make it back to Paris! Always want to travel, but circumstances haven’t allowed it in a few years.

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  5. Madoqua says:

    I have so much enjoyed reading your posts and have learnt a lot about blogging from you as well. I wanted to thank you and nominate you for the REALITY award, as I am sure others have also found you:
    - Real
    - Energising
    - Amazing
    - Inspiring
    - Touching
    and, well – Yippee!

    If you would like to accept this nomination, please visit the nomination page for five fun questions: http://madoqua.wordpress.com/2012/11/26/reality-award/

  6. eof737 says:

    ¸.•*¨*•.♪♫♫♪May your week ahead be filled with thankful moments! .♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸ ♥˜”*°•.˜”*°•.˜”*°•.★★.•°*”˜.•°*”˜.•°*”˜”
    Elizabeth :-)

  7. Madoqua says:

    A rather thought provoking post. I very much enjoyed your original perspective and celebration of the ‘now’. I once read somewhere and have never forgotten the message of the ‘Tao of Pooh’ (Winnie the Pooh); it went along the lines of: “I just am”. I thought it was lovely.

  8. pix & kardz says:

    What an original and reflective post. while i think that being grateful rather than walking through life blissfully unaware that daily blessings are something to be savoured is a good thing – i agree that making lists alone can be an easy out. i think it is not about counting stuff and things but to recognize that one has the capacity to be grateful – that is a significant discovery.
     
    thanks for sharing.

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  10. 76sanfermo says:

    Unusual takes,really! I wish I had your gift for phtography!

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